I would love to welome Shannon to fundinmenal today.
What is the most surprising thing you discovered while writing your book?
As I was sharing my stories from my residents, I learned I was not truly as alone as I made myself believe. I learned coping skills in counseling, there I learned I did not have to carry the weight on my own, that there were people just like me. (Clinically depressed, learning disability) I wanted to quit counseling more than once, cause the personal work was intense and hard to process sometimes. But I knew I needed help; or I was not going to make it. I kept going, sometimes you surprise yourself and you do not know how strong you really are until you are being pulled down in an strong undertow, about to go under and no one is there to rescue you. You must do the work. Depression is like that feeling, your body wants to kill you off while your spirit whispers keep going. In the end, you only have yourself to save.
What was the inspiration for the story?
There was a lot of inspiration, first one, is I wanted to give the elderly a voice. I wanted them to know I heard them, someone cared. The world is very noisy, and they tend to be overlooked. I wanted them to know how much I appreciated their help, trust and kindness. While I was trying to figure my life out.
As well as I wanted to share my story of being looked at as an underdog. Like so many of the residents I took care of. I was born with a learning disability, clinically depressed and living an unbalanced life for a long time. I wanted to share how much a little bit of love can really help change someone’s life. Just that one extra minute you gave to someone can really help them feel they mattered. We are more alike, then different, regardless of age.
What do you think of the book’s title? How does it relate to the book’s contents?
Finding My Sunshine is about me being in the dark for some time; it was only after I learned to accept myself was, I able to find my sunshine, and dance to life’s lessons. I talk about my depression, suicidal and being born with a learning disability. I felt defeated before I got out of bed in the morning. I tie that in with how my residents felt; and at times they too felt defeated and not heard. Finding My Sunshine, reminds us we can all dance in the sun regardless of our struggles.
Explain “Dance to Life’s lessons” what does that mean?
To me, it means, mistakes are not life sentences. I had to learn to forgive myself and learn that it was okay to do that. I had to come to an understanding, that I may never get an apology, or I may never have friendships recover from what I went through. Part of self-healing is moving on and not being weighed down by somebody else’s actions. They may think they did nothing wrong or hurtful.
What is a moment when you were proud to be a nurse?
I have many. But my most favorite memory, is when I took a young quadriplegic to a baseball game. Earlier in his life, he was hit by an 18-wheeler/semi-truck. I do not remember all the details of this horrific accident, but he survived.
He cannot talk due to having a tube in his throat for airway; he is connected to an oxygen machine/device all the time; and it has to be plugged in to work. I felt he was still present, only he did not know how to communicate. I asked him simple questions, and told him to blink once for yes, and blink twice for no. He did. I was so excited to have that connection with him. From what I knew at that time, he had not been taken outside to enjoy the sunshine or hear the birds. So I barrowed the maintenance extension cords, and took him outside. A single tear came down his face and a faint smile.
I asked his doctor if I could take him to a baseball game. The doctor did not understand why, when this resident was in a vegetable state. I was able to track down this resident POA who agreed to go with us. The MD finally agreed to let him go, but it was my license if anything happened to him while he was in my care.
It was myself and another co -worker, who helped me load him up the activity van, put in his portable oxygen machine, brought extension cords, and took him to the game. He sat up in his wheelchair and watched the entire game that night. He healed my hand. His entire family came out that night. For that one moment in time, I wanted him to feel human again. That is what nursing to me is all about. Having people feel human again, feeling loved.
Book Details:
Book Title: Finding My Sunshine (A Memoir)
Author: Shannon Leith McGuire.
Category: Adult Non-Fiction (18+), 198 pages
Genre: Memoir
Publisher: Sunshine Street Press
Release date: March 2021
Tour dates: Nov 15 to Dec 3, 2021
Content Rating: PG+M for bad language, anger, and suicidal thoughts, clinical depression, and assault
“What if that someone was you?” Shannon had been so quick to blame others for her anger. She knew she was drowning in darkness and pain; being born with a learning disability made her feel defeated by life. She tried drinking heavily in order to quiet the demons. After being kicked out of college, Shannon took a leap of faith and started working in a nursing home. That’s when her angels appeared and the miracle began. The insight and wisdom she gained from those elderly new friends led her on an inspiring journey of discovery and self-acceptance. Each of us has our own path. Some of us just need angels to help us find it. This is her story.
Shannon was raised in a small town in Eastern Montana, where you leave your car keys in the ignition and your front door unlocked all the time. The kind of place where sunsets and sunrises can be seen for miles on the horizon. Where the spring crickets and frogs resting in the irrigation ditches helped transition the days into a calm resting night. Where the winters can get so cold, air can freeze.
It was only after she was academically suspended by the college she was attending, that she became a Certified Nurses Aide (CNA). She did her training in Billings, Montana and it was there she learned how to take care of others and bonded with the geriatric population.
For over five years, Shannon worked in the same nursing home where she received her training. The work was hard, but it grounded her and helped her find balance in what had become a deeply unbalanced life. It was not until she was a CNA, at one of the hospitals that she had a dream-three nights in a row-that she was going to become a nurse.
She currently resides in Tampa, Florida, where you may hear her laughing with her husband of over 10 years, scuba diving in the ocean, taking walks with their rescued pit-bull dog- Darby, or dancing together to life’s music.
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